Posts Tagged ‘sexual abuse’

If you use any sexually

Thursday, July 1st, 2010

It is never okay to take someone on or related to your body in an embarrassing or uncomfortable way . Not friends , strangers , staff , parents or siblings or any other. If something happens , there’s help at hand.

Adults and young people who are much older than you should never move your body in any ” sexual ” way . If someone does that , it is not your fault . Anyone who is an adult or older responsible always for what he or she does . It has nothing to do with you . Other children may not do so unless you want to . You and your body has the right to be left alone .

What is sexual abuse ?

Gender or sex organs are the same as the penis or Snippe . Maybe you’re unsure of what is a sexual assault . Sexual abuse may include :

  • When someone wants to do something with your body that makes you feel uneasy and scared .
  • When someone touches your body in a way that does not feel good , or related to your genitals , or want you to touch the other’s genitals .
  • When someone rubs , rub or press their genitals against your gender in any way .
  • When someone wants you to use your mouth and suck , for example, or lick their body .
  • When an adult or more want to see your genitals , or want to show his own .
  • When someone is talking in a sexual manner .
  • When someone wants to see or shoot you without clothes .

These things are always counted as a sexual assault even if you want to do what an adult says or asks you to do . Adults should not ask you to do something sexual . It is only the adult’s fault in such cases . Not yours.

There is help!

Talk to an adult

For most , it is very difficult to tell what has happened . Maybe you feel guilty or hesitant . It might take several years before you dare to tell . It is never too late to tell

Talk to an adult you trust. You should not need to be afraid . You should also not be afraid of you gossip . Talking about what has happened is not to gossip . It has done this against you need help . You can not help him or her and you can not wait for it to stop . It is enough that it happened once that person has done wrong . Talk to your mom , dad , teacher , school nurse , a neighbor , your grandmother , grandfather , grandmother or grandfather or your friend’s mom or dad . The important thing is that you ‘re talking to someone and it ends .

It tells you it can then go to someone who is good at taking care of things here . It may include social services , or any group working to help those who have experienced sexual abuse . Your parents have no right to be angry at you for seeking help .

Places that can help you and your family

If you do not know who to talk to , there are several places you can call or e-mail . You can choose which one you feel good . Maybe you’ve heard of any of them before. In several of them , you can choose to remain anonymous to begin with . Maybe you first want to hear only what they can to help you with . Call from a friend or telephone if you do not want your parents to see on your phone bill where you called.

Talk to a nurse

You can also call Health Guide on the telephone on 08-320 100th Here are nurses and picks up the phone seven days a week around the clock . They can help you get help . It costs as a regular phone call .

BUP

You can also contact BUP , Child and adolescent psychiatry directly . Call first BUP where you live . Click on the links to the right address and telephone number . BUP Vaasa working specifically with children who have experienced sexual abuse .

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